One way we equip parents with tools to manage life with a young child is by helping them understand their child’s development. In infancy especially, it’s easy to become overwhelmed with daily caretaking. We help mothers understand typical behavior and how to work with it. But it’s not just about milestones and informing moms about their baby’s development. To be most effective, we prioritize the relationship between parent and child, and in turn between nurse and mother.

What is getting in the way of being able to care for themselves or their babies? How can we make sure that baby is taken care of?

NFP nurse home visitors can observe caregiver-child interactions during visits. Through a technique called motivational interviewing, we help parents become more receptive to change. We talk about what changes the family is already considering that may improve the child’s opportunity for success; and what things in their life they’re not willing to change. Together, we create goals and plans to reach them.

Another tool we use is screening for possible concerns to the mother and child. When you help a person understand their risks, and how they may escalate, you empower them to navigate tricky situations. One example of this is around intimate partner danger. For women who may be at risk, using a calendar may help identify stressors or patterns that can lead to a likelihood of escalation or violence. With this information, a woman can be prepared for and have a plan to ensure her safety and the safety of her baby.